A few years ago I began to write a book about transition. I have always been involved in supporting humans to find their way after they have died and I felt the desire to continue this work. When I write I have a clear contract for how it will go and I simply get into the beam and write what comes through me. To my surprise this entire book was about attachment. The biggest part of our challenge to moving peacefully and gracefully through transition and allowing others peace in their transition is our attachment to 3-D……things outside of ourselves. Whether it is a spouse or other family members, friends, cars, clothes, houses, geographic location, unrealized dreams or our jobs, we all hang onto those reference points in our human reality and they give us comfort. Those things define our reality. What we are experiencing right now is the same process. Whether we choose to continue to exist in physical form or not we are all transitioning from an old world to the NEW. And, just like death we can’t take our old stuff with us if we choose to be fully and completely in the NEW.
What does that mean on a personal level and what on earth does this have to do with relationships? Well, it has everything to do with relationships. As we have moved through our lives we have bought into a collective programming that told us we will find our connection, and spiritual fulfillment and guidance through energetic connection to things, beings and thoughts on the horizontal plane. Simply put, we look to what is around us that we can see to fill us with what we long for. We create our comfort by attaching, connecting and placing meaning on the people and things around us that we are familiar with, and that most of the rest of humanity finds their comfort with as well. We develop relationship focus that is outside ourselves and we become VERY uncomfortable when anything disrupts those reference points or we loose one of those things we are attached to.
What is the solution? Reestablish relationship with the self and seek comfort, guidance and reference points on the vertical plane rather than the horizontal. When we continue to seek our stability from the horizontal plane (aka the 3-D world around us) we are seeking comfort, stability, guidance and divine connection in a place that is full of confusion, limitation and instability. When we seek our comfort, stability, guidance and a divine connection on a vertical plane we must first develop a relationship with ourselves because we are the gateway to the comfort, stability and guidance we receive through our divine connection.
As we move through this time that some call ascension, we are being called to pull out all the stops to master our human in this ever changing…….some days very quickly, reality. The deeper our acknowledgement and connection to our own divinity the deeper our connection to our Divine Creator. When we are using this place and aspects of our self for our reference points…our own Spirit Self, Spirit Family, Universal being, our connection to the being that created us, the frequency of Creator etc. we create a stability within our human that can withstand turmoil, loss, change or any other humanly perceived challenge. Our connection through ourselves to Creator gives us the ability to raise our frequency to access the big picture, vision, and experience of a whole NEW WORLD with ease, grace and peace.